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Where Hotheads Prevail

Healthy feelings, and an effective way of managing these, can turn out very critical in such a highly primed environment as the stock market. IT IS easy to believe that health issues are off-limits in the “unemotional world of finance.” But if you had been into the stock market, it will not take long to see that people connected to it—brokers, market makers, dealers, and investors—are nothing but. Well, that depends on your investment strategy. Stock traders who ride on the second-to-second movement of stocks in the Philippine Stock Exchange will experience fear and ecstasy, and shades of these emotions in between, depending on which direction their holdings are moving for the moment. If their stocks came on breaking ceiling prices, they will thank heaven for being born. But when the market hits bottom for many days or weeks, you will hear from news reports that someone came to believe that the top of a high-rise building is just a step away to the streets below. The emo

In the Face of Anger

SOMETIME in 1988 I came to know a person in Zamboanga City whose way of showing feelings defied my understanding of emotions. Male and married, he spoke softly and showed no sign of roughness or aggression—even at times when my own aggression meter rose. I learned from his wife that his way of speaking came from his family. Even when pissed off, only those who closely knew him could detect... ( Read more. )  This article appears in Sun-Star Cebu newspaper on 21 July 2010.

Freedom Stops with Results

ZOSIMO T. LITERATUS, RMT Freedom has always been found at the time of making a decision, a choice of actions, things, and more. Once the choice has been made, freedom ends with the consequences of that decision or choice. Then freedom reappears with how a person handles the impact of the results from those decisions. The same natural process continues to play in marriage, from the choice of a partner, to the decision to enter into marriage, and the eventual decision to stay or separate ways. Professor emeritus of sociology at Rutgers University (New Brunswick, New Jersey USA) David Popenoe founded the National Marriage Project to provide research analysis on the state of marriage in America as one of its two-pronged mission. The project financially supported by the university in cooperation with private foundations came up a guideline entitled “Ten Important Research findings on Marriage and Choosing a Marriage Partner: Helpful Facts for Young Adults.” It was published in November 2004